Sex tips to our younger selves

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They say sex gets better with age and we really hope it’s true. And, if you’ve been sexually active for a few years now, there are bound to be changes in the way you approach the whole act from the time when you were younger and inexperienced. It’s normal to have been caught in some awkward situations that made you wonder what the hell you were even thinking. Here are a few tips that we would give to our younger selves when it comes to sex:

Do not feel pressured:
Each one takes their own time to get into the act. Do not have sex out of pressure or because you’re afraid you’re going to end up a virgin for the rest of your life. So, take your time and have sex only when you feel right about it and not because someone is forcing you into it.
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Masturbate:
Women’s bodies and minds tend to work different from those of men. We take time to understand how our bodies work and react to sensation. Masturbating will help you know what works for you and aid you in acing the big O.
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Porn is not real:
You can forget about whatever you saw on the internet. No, not all women look like that and no, not all men act like that.
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If something doesn’t feel right, it’s probably not:
Learn to trust your instinct. If something feels wrong, then it probably is. You don’t have to do anything you’re not comfortable with, even if it means ending a relationship or losing the love of your life. In fact, run away from it .
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Don’t apologise for your flaws:
You’re beautiful as you are. If you don’t feel it, you won’t feel sexy and you definitely won’t enjoy the sex. So, don’t point out your chubby midsection or hairy legs.  
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Protection is no laughing matter:
Make sure that you always use protection. It will not only give you peace of mind but you reduce the risk of contracting anything unpleasant.
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If he forgets about your pleasure, forget about him:
You are just as important as him, which means your pleasure matters. If he isn’t concerned about making you feel good and treats your body like a toy, then stay away from him.
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Always pee after:
This cannot be stressed enough. No matter how tired or sleepy you are, always pee after sex. This will ensure you do not get an infection of any kind.
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Ask for what you want:
Don’t be shy to communicate what makes you feel good. After all, sex is no fun if only one partner is having a good time. Besides, your partner is not a mind reader. So, feel free to say what works for you.
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Have fun:
Sex is best enjoyed when you stop thinking, let go off yourself and just enjoy the moments.
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